Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Would your husband wear this?

I have always wanted Andrew to try wearing one of these empathy bellys. I just think it would make me feel good deep in my heart to know that for one little minute, he knows how I feel! But he flat-out refuses- he says that he sympathizes with me, and does not need to wear it.

So, I want to 'poll' my friends- has your husband ever worn one of these, or would he be willing to? If he did, did it do any good for either of you?

My little sweetheart!

Brian has been such an awesome kid lately! The other evening I was REALLY tired. I mean, as a mom I am always tired- I basically just go from exhausted, to kinda worn out, to comatose, and so on. Being pregnant though, it is much worse. I will say that I am one of those extremely fortunate women who does not get sick in the first trimester, but I do get immense fatigue. Anyway, that night I was lying on the couch- not able to do much else- and Brian came over and wrapped his favorite white blankie around my shoulders, gave me a kiss, and said "Nigh-night!" I was surprised he would share his blankie with me- he is quite possessive of it! What a cutie-pa-tootie. I love that guy. Here is Brian asleep with his white blankie on our road trip . . . and Clayton asleep chewing on his carseat strap again. Gotta love those boys!

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Third time's the charm?

So, the question everyone is asking me is, "Do you think it's a girl this time?" "Are you hoping for a girl?" etc. Let me go on record- I would be completely thrilled with a girl or a boy. For completely different reasons. A baby girl would obviously be exciting- cute clothes, cute hair, cute cute cute! So that would be great. BUT, I would be just as thrilled with a boy- out of relief! A girl would be a whole new ball game. I'm not a person who is big into change, and I pretty much know what to do with baby boys. We would be all set with clothing/toys, and he could share a room with his big brothers as needed down the road.

Also, I have always harbored this secret (until now) fear- if I ever have a daughter, she will be freakishly tall and have enormous feet! Let's check my family history-

My grandma? 5' 4", size 5 1/2 shoe.

My mom? 5' 7", size 8 1/2 shoe.

Me? 6 foot even, size 10 1/2 shoe!

So mathematically, my poor daughter would be like 6'3" and wear size 13 shoe!! I would feel so horribly guilty and sorry for her!!! But maybe, just maybe, she would get a few shorter genes from my mom and my mother-in-law???
Anyway, I guess we'll cross that bridge when we get there! Whoever we get, it'll be great.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Fun Family Night

Tonight we went to Meadowlake park- it was so much fun. The boys got to ride in airplanes:

And on a train!



And then we fed the ducks.
Although Clayton was not too interested in sharing any food with any birds!
About this point, the geese started trying to sneak up on Clayton and steal some snacks.

One little duck seemed to take a liking to Brian . . . and his limited throwing capacity.

We had a great time! We'll definitely have to go back. The boys loved it!

Monday, July 21, 2008

Dream of Flight, Part 6 - Crossing Into the Blue

Disclaimer: This is a pretty long post, but you'll be rewarded for reading it. ;)

About the time that I graduated college something stirred inside of me. Maybe it was that life-long dream of flying jets, maybe it was a patriotic void left by my leaving the Army, maybe it was the thought of spending a career behind a desk at a job that would pay too little and bore me out of my mind. It was probably a little of all of the above. So I made a last-ditch effort to fulfill my dream - as I'd already shut the door on the Air Force Academy and ROTC, I applied to Officer Training School. Through some miracle, and at a time when more than two out of three applicants were turned away, I was SELECTED! A few months later, I left Lisa and Brian (and Clayton too - sort of) for Officer Training School in Montgomery Alabama.

OTS was like a lot of things in life; it was unique, challenging, and sometimes even fun, but not something I'd want to do over. The first 6 weeks was spent as the "lower-class" to a group that had already been there a while. We learned (or re-learned) military studies, history, etiquette, and discipline.

About halfway through we took over as the "upper-class" as a new group arrived and we learned and applied some of the leadership principals we'd need as officers in the Air Force. There were ups and downs but in the end it was worth it to earn a commission in the "world's finest air force" and pin on those gold bars.

Lisa and Brian were able to come out to the graduation ceremony as were my Uncle Dan and Aunt Nancy. They were able to witness my taking the oath of commissioning and then pin my bars on. Having been in the Air Force himself at one time, Dan was then able to give me my customary 'first salute', for which I 'paid' him one silver dollar.

After OTS, Lisa and Brian stayed with me in Alabama for some additional officer schooling, and then we drove to Vance Air Force Base in Enid, Oklahoma for undergraduate pilot training. I'm not sure if I can fit an adequate description of UPT into one blog entry, but it's worth a try.

Flight training was one of the most challenging, but rewarding experiences of my life so far. I never imagined I'd be doing this kind of flying, but I also never imagined this kind of flying could be so difficult. It starts with 6 weeks of academic training in the classroom. There we learn all the "ground school" stuff: how the planes work, what kind of rules we have to follow in the air, how weather affects us, etc. When we hit the flightline, we start by flying the T-6A. The "Texan" is a propeller plane, but that's where the similarity with any plane I'd flown before ends. It's driven by a 1200hp turboprop jet engine which helps it achieve speeds of nearly 300 mph and climb rates ten times faster than your average Cessna. It's fully aerobatic and we practice the full-range of maneuvers - loops, rolls, spins -pulling up to 4-5 Gs on most flights. Among the highlights of my T-6 flying were taking it up solo, learning basic formation skills, and taking it cross-country back to Utah one weekend.

Every flight in T-6's was graded, and along with other criteria, all the students were ranked at the conclusion of the program which determined which advanced track they went to. Pilots who would fly helicopters went to Fort Rucker Alabama, those who would fly large tanker or transport planes stayed and flew the T-1, others who would fly the smaller (and sportier) C-130 transport went to Corpus Christi Texas, and those chosen for fighters and bombers flew the mighty T-38 Talon. The decision as to which track each student received was revealed" at an elaborate ceremony. After some "pranking" involving UAVs (unmanned planes), I learned that I would be flying the T-38!

The T-38 was a blast to fly, but a little overwhelming at first. Suddenly I had gone from 300 mph in the T-6 to 600 mph. The jet and the training was faster and less forgiving. There was a much heavier emphasis placed on formation flying, including the type of tactical formation that is flown in combat.

Some of the highlights of flying the T-38 were:
- tactical formation, including my checkride (a flying exam) which I aced,
- low-level flying - over 400 mph at 500 feet,
- and just getting places so fast - we once made it to Amarillo, TX in 40 minutes (normally a 4 hour drive).

Interestingly, I only rarely had time to sit back I think to myself "This is so cool!". Most of the time I was just trying to keep my "cranium" in the game and not let the jet get ahead of me. Once in a while though I forced myself to smile as I lit the afterburners and felt that kick-in-the-pants, or as I looked up a row of three T-38s flying in perfect formation.

After a few months of that, it came time again to get ranked and receive our assignments in a similar fashion to when we got our advanced tracks assigned. If you've been following our blog, you'll know that I was called up in front of a room full of family, friends, and fellow pilots, to be dealt my destiny. In a flash of powerpoint slides, I learned I'd be flying the B-1B, a long-range, supersonic bomber. I have to say I'm pretty excited. It's a great jet that does some awesome flying, is doing a lot of important work in Afghanistan and Iraq, and has a community of really laid-back flyers that will suit my personality well.

So- a little more flying after receiving my assignment, and then it was time to graduate and get my silver wings. Graduation was nice - there's whole post on the event - but it was even nicer to be done. From here we go to Abilene Texas for some follow-on training to learn to fly the B-1 and then maybe off to South Dakota (and probably off to war). Pilot training has definitely been a fulfillment of my dream and has taught me a lot about flying, but I think it's made me realize there are more things in life to dream about than just flying. It's made me realize that while I'm proud of what I do for a living I'm often more proud of what I have to come home to; a loving wife who will stick with me for eternity (no matter what boyish dream I'm pursuing), supportive parents (who have had to wait *decades* for me to 'get it'), a growing knowledge and faith in God (with PLENTY of room to grow), and three adorable (albeit crazy) kids; well, just two till next March. Life's pretty good.

Friday, July 18, 2008

The drive home, and why we do NOT need a dog

Our drive home the last two days was LONG, but went just fine. On our way through Arizona, we passed a bridge over the Grand Canyon. We stopped and walked around for a bit- it was amazing. Mom, it's a good thing you were not there!!! You would not have enjoyed it. Check out our PHOTOGENIC family!! Yeesh.

But just to prove that at least one of my boys is photogenic at least some of the time, here is a good one of Clayton. He actually does fine if Mommy is taking the picture. This is at a park on base at Albequrque, where we stopped for the night.

Here are a few more pictures from our trip to UT. My friend Jen made the boys matching In N' Out shirts! Kid sizes are not made by the company, but Jen bought XXL adult shirts, and made these out of them! They are so stinkin' cute. Andrew and I LOVE In N' Out, and it is a source of great joy that there is one in St. George now.

Here is Brian at my friend Kelli's house. She made balloon creations for the boys- and Brian loved it. He just does not smile for the camera.
And now- as for why the Monks family does NOT need a dog right now- it's because we already have one. His name is Clayton. As you might know, he has been chewing on everything to the extent that I bought him genuine doggie chew-toys. Well, when we got to my parent's house he found some of Charlie's (the ACTUAL dog's) rawhide strips. He LOVED them. Notice the drool running down his chest.
Here are the two 'doggies' hanging out together- Clayton and Charlie.
And here is our 'puppy' asleep in his carseat today- chewing on the strap.
Anyway, we finally made it home to Enid, and it is nice to be back in our house. Road trips with toddlers are not for the faint of heart (or for anyone with a lick of sense; let's be honest) but we had such a great time in UT! But I think next time we'll fly. Maybe we can get a doggie kennel for Clayton to ride in.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Short & Sweet Tag

Anyone reading this, consider yourself tagged. Please play along and leave me a comment!

1. As a comment on my blog, leave one memory that you and I had together. It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!

2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog (or your facebook) and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you.

Thanks!

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Plattar Boy


My mom's breakfast specialty is Swedish Pancakes, which are called Plattar (pronounced PLEH-ta). They are little teeny thin pancakes- SOOO yummy! Above is what they look like close up, cooking in the plattar pan. If you don't have a plattar pan, you can also eat them at IKEA.

Anyway, a typical adult serving of plattar is maybe 7-14 of the little guys. Today, I ate about 15 (it was for lunch and I was way hungry), Brian ate 4, and Clayton ate . . . eighteen. Yes, 18! We could not believe it. My mom put a batch of seven out on a plate on the table, turned around to make some more, and when she looked back only one was left . . . Clayton was scarfing them down. And he just kept going. Anyway, I guess he is a true Swede! Jag älska du, Clayton. (I love you, Clayton).

Friday, July 11, 2008

Keepin' cool in sunny St. George

Here are the boys playing in the pool Grandpa and MorMor got for them. They loved it!
This is one of the St. George water parks- what a GREAT idea! It's free, and so much fun. It has a waterfall and little 'river' to play in, as well as a water fountain.













You can also keep cool in St. George by staying inside . . . and playing Guitar Hero! This was Andrew's very first try, and he did great.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Father & Sons' Campout!

Tonight Andrew set up a tent in his parent's backyard . . . and he and the boys are sleeping out in it as I type! They had a lot of fun setting up camp, as you can see.


*Update from Wednesday- all three of them slept in the tent all night! They had a great time. Way to go, Andrew.

Friday, July 4, 2008

Happy 4th of July!

This first photo pretty much sums up our two-day drive from Oklahoma to UT. Both boys are crying, Brian is smacking Clayton- oh brother, what a trip. Here are some much more pleasant photos of our stay at Andrew's parents' house! Clayton enjoyed playing the piano with Auntie Kiri: And both boys LOVED the bubbles that Grandma bought.



Here is Clayton in the tent with his cousin Madison, and in the toy tub with his cousin Aleah.






Here is Brian, Clayton and their cousin Tai playing in the sprinklers.
Check out Brian's clever trick- kinking the hose to stop the sprinkler . . .
. . . and then letting it loose!

Here are all five Monks grandchildren- Tai, Brian, Clayton, Aleah and Madison.

Here we are at my Aunt Carmen's house in Eagle Mountain for a Trunnell family reunion.

Brian's favorite part was when Uncle Nephi rigged up an air compressor to shoot homemade duct-tape rockets!













After the Trunnell reunion, we came back to Grandma & Grandpa's house, and visited with Andrew's cousin Sara and her family- German, Lucy and Audrey! We had not met the girls in person yet, so it was awesome. Here they are in their jammies with their little blankies, ready for bed. They are so cute! Sara, we are still wondering how you do it!

Maybe hanging around the babies made Clayton long for the good ol' days? Here he is playing in the exersaucer.
Clayton has been chewing on everything in sight lately, so I actually went to Petco today and bought him two doggie chew toys! Hey, he likes them- and it's better than him chewing on my shirts/Brian's shoes/rocks/etc all day.












Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Long trip, and the SCARE of my life

We decided to drive back to UT and follow Andrew's parents- which was a great idea in theory. And of course, now that we are here it is great (barring the SCARE of my life- more on that in a minute). But the trip was AWFUL. Brian got carsick for the first time in his life, and threw up seven times. Yes, seven. Poor kid, it was awful. Not to mention I was sick a few times also. It was bad. But we finally made it!

So we got in last night around 8:30- around 10:00 we put Brian in an upstairs bedroom on a futon bed, Clayton on the ground level in a pack-n-play, and Andrew and I in the basement. We were all beat, and went to sleep. Well, at 5:00 this morning I heard the doorbell ring and the dog barking- and then I heard some voices (although I couldn't hear what they were saying) but I heard the door close and went back to sleep. When I woke up for real I asked my mother-in-law Janet how everyone slept last night and she said "I don't even want to tell you . . ." and she told me that it was a guy in her ward (the elder's quorum president to be exact) who rang the doorbell at 5:00 am- he was on an early-morning jog, and saw BRIAN walking around outside!!! He was wandering in the next-door neighbor's front yard. Of course, the guy has no idea who Brian is- but he sees that our front door is open. So he brings Brian home and rings the doorbell. My mother-in-law answered the door and put him back in bed, and he went right back to sleep.
Now at this point I need to mention that the door was LOCKED and DEADBOLTED. But that was no match for a curious toddler!!!

When my mother-in-law told me what happened, I think I was about as close to fainting as I've ever been in my life. Phrases like "Amber Alert . . . 6 o'clock News . . . missing child . . . " were whirling in my mind. Words cannot express how grateful I am that Brian's little adventure ended so quickly and happily. I think he just woke up and didn't know where he was- he occasionally wakes up early like that at home, and just comes and finds Mom & Dad- maybe he thought he would go outside and look for his own house? Who knows.

Anyway, that is my scary story. Rest assured that tonight we are putting an extra-tall baby gate in the hall in front of Brian's door. If anyone else out there has a toddler as curious and resourceful as mine, maybe you can learn from my experience! I mean, Brian cannot open the 'outside' doors at our house, so it never entered my mind that he could escape from anyone else's house. Now I know!